Friday, January 27, 2012

T.T.'s still with us.

Flip, it feels too recent, when I moved to Nelspruit, I did not know many people here, I knew my late sister/best-friend Randy (may her soul rest in peace), I knew Zwoi, who just moved out of town, and I also knew the other dude (whom if it was a girl I would just say not my type) so there was just no way I would count him in people to hang with.
My task was to make as many cool friends as I could in the shortest period of time, so I started by smiles, worked a bit and I moved on, then I asked Zwoi to hook me up with her cool friends if she had any and guess who's name topped the list, T.T. (Matete Moloto), and I was like "ohkay", why not, and before I know I had the dopest female radio DJ for a friend.
Now after all those smiles, laughter, happy times, best-friends/brother-sister talks, the times flew and faster than a blink it was 3 years later, things have changed, Nelspruit is not Nelspruit anymore, it's now Mbombela, we both have grown, both had been in a lot, matured and all that, it was about time, my friend has a baby boy Nathan, things change for the better.
So yesterday I just said goodbye to one of my best buddies in Nelspruit, T.T. just left town, and even though she's just 3 hour drive away I must admit, I will miss her…
Happy chances to you, Matete Moloto, and may God bless all the paths you walk on, may everything you touch turn golden, and Ru loves you to bits…

Thursday, January 26, 2012

twist Top while hunting...

So lately when I'm bored and not photo-walking or digitally editing them, I just got hooked to a new hobby, most would say web surfing, but that to me that would appear "generally said" and does not specify why I'm glued to my netpad, laptop and, sometimes, my cellphone... the main reason is, i go around, in the web, randomly openning blogs.

It's amazing what people blog about out there, and most amazing what would keep you stuck to the blogs, and before you know you've read 50 blog posts in this blog you don't have know the title.
While at it, this morning I came accross this other neglected blog called twist Top by a lady named Lissa Jean  from Massachusetts, USA, with it's most recent post posted on the 27th of March 2010. And for some reason while reading her posts, i felt attached that I started to feel neglected by the fact that she has left twist Top and started The Entertainment Lodge in Tumblr, which to me is a bit dull and boring and does not have that ish that kept me fixed still to her post in twis Top, at this point I feel like I can even hunt her down and tell her how disappointed I am by her decisions, and even though she did that before I knew her i feel she had cheated on me as her fan...

WANTED: LISSA JEAN



Dear Lissa Jean,

The odds are 1 to infinity that you will see this message, but should it happen you do, just know that I've been a fan of twist Top for the past 2 hours and i'm disappointed that you left the blog for a boring Tumblr page.

Yours
Ru.

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Oh!!! wait a minute.

I remember you, last summer was hard for me too, and you made it all about you and I guess that's the reason why we both turned this way.

I grew a lot within the past two years, through the lessons taught, the theories and experience of life I went through, like 1. knowing there will always be people who will leave you in the desert when something better comes along, 2. no matter what good you do for poeple there will always be one little flaw that cast over the image of the goodness in you. 3. No matter how big the tide is, stay calm and you will think better and work out a better way out,  4. Never back yourself up by the smile of your neighbour over the fence, you might wake up tomorrow and find the new neigbour with no teeth.

I lost good friends, and few bad ones, the memories written in my heart never fades, there are just so many reminders around me, and sometimes it's in the simple things like the number 9, and one still don't get it how, but things like that represent a lot, like a month you shared a smile with that special friend who is now gone and you miss them, and everybody else.

I wish I saw you...

Friday, January 20, 2012

Wednesday, January 11, 2012